Spirituality for Beginners

Fr. Bede's almost-daily reflections. When it comes to the spiritual life, we're all beginners. I also send these out by email. Contact me at bcamera@anselm.edu. God bless!





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Tuesday, December 8, 2015

The way to heaven is opened for us.

The Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception

We continue with the fifth verse:

O Come, O Key of David, come,
and open wide our heavenly home;
Make safe the way that leads on high,
And close the path to misery.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to you,
O [Israel].

The conception of Mary in the womb of her mother Elizabeth is the definitive moment in salvation history when the Key does, indeed, open for us the way to heaven. Grace has totally conquered sin. Concupiscence is wiped out, along with all the various unhealthy ways we have of coping when we perceive that our basic needs for security, control and esteem are not being met. Addiction cannot take hold. The supernatural enemies of the human soul are bound and cast into hell at the conception of this one, spotless, completely pure and holy girl who is meant to become the Mother of God and the Mother of us all.

We, of course, suffer from the ravages of original sin, concupiscence, and unhealthy coping mechanisms, not the least of which are major and minor addictions which do lead us along the path to misery.

When we need to make choices about our present, we can look to the Blessed Mother and ask the way we should go. We must always be aware that to some extent, we are “flying blindly” as we make our ways through life. We don’t always know which is the way that leads to God; are are sometimes tragically ignorant that there is a path that leads to misery while our senses and deluded minds are convincing us that it is that  path that is the right way to go.

Consider, if you will, the definitiveness of this verse: one way is opened—not only opened, but “opened wide.” Another way is closed. Would that were true for us now. Unfortunately it is not. What this verse offers us is an incredible promise of what Christ comes to bring to us. Let’s seize the promise and live in the hopeful space that our deliverance is near at hand. Often, we will experience it here and now in our lives. Other times, it may be just a bit beyond our reach . . . for now. But let us hope.


Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Taking the High Road (part 2 of a series)

More about making creative decisions to "take the high road:" IMHO, we need to know ourselves well in order to make the kinds of distinctions and decisions that have an impact on the quality of our lives. For example:
  • What are the activities, endeavors, hobbies,ways of thinking, conversations, etc., that get you on the high road. (We might also want to call this the "top line." Or else, give it a name that makes sense to you.)
  • What are the distractions that keep us from engaging in top line living, thinking or doing?
Once we have a clearer picture (things never get totally clear, do they?), then we can begin asking ourselves more questions, such as
  • Who inspires, encourages, becomes a part of our top line living? 
  • Who are the people who serve to keep us stuck on the bottom, or who lead us to the bottom?
Knowing this can help us to opt for the higher way of living.  IMHO, of course.

Sunday, January 9, 2011

Creative decisions

   A student writes: Creativity is not only expressed through art and music; it is seen through your daily actions and the decisions you make.  Something to think about.


   When I have a choice to make between x and y, which of the two expresses my "higher self"? Am I free to decide to "take the high road"? Hmmm... which shall it be--watching television or working on my hobby? sending that angry email or not?  I'm sure you can come up with a few of your own choices and decisions?
   Should I end this post now or continue squeezing out a few more lines?