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Fr. Bede's almost-daily reflections. When it comes to the spiritual life, we're all beginners. I also send these out by email. Contact me at bcamera@anselm.edu. God bless!





Showing posts with label pain. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pain. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 23, 2016

We need to go through the pain.

Wednesday of Holy Week

This morning I had a chance to meet with a group of people, not all of them Christian, who were living difficult and troubled lives, and who were struggling to keep their heads above water. My heart when out to them and I admired their courage and their willingness to speak from the heart directly and sincerely and without any need to put up a good front or to “look good.”

Several of them spoke about having the feeling from time to time that they welcomed death as a release from their pain and suffering, and how at some times they felt like they were at “the end of their ropes” and had little or no energy to keep going on. What could I possibly say to them?

I decided to take a plunge and talk about Holy Week despite the variety of religious traditions present in the room. I gave a brief description, trying to keep it as “secular” as possible because this was not a setting where I could preach or proselytize. They knew I was a priest, and so that fact spoke enough to them. So: what to say?

Finally, this is what I said, and I give thanks to the Holy Spirit for guiding my words because I wasn’t really sure what to say: “Basically, the observance of Holy Week and Easter is like going through a process. It’s meaning is that it is by pressing through pain that we end up on the other side and win the victory and the cessation of suffering.” And that is all I had to say. Several of the people in the room looked like I had just revealed a great secret to them that they had never discovered before. I didn’t need to say any more.

When I reviewed the Gospel for today’s Mass (Matthew 26:14-25) I recognized our Lord in already in pain. It was the Passover Supper—the final night He would be with His disciples. On some level he knew what was to come, but there He was in a room surrounded by friends, in a room where one might suppose there was a great deal of love and devotion, and despite all that he had to come face to face with his betrayer who would soon leave the room and go about his nasty business.

This Gospel passage sets before us one of the many “Stations of Pain” that the Lord has to experience on His own way to Calvary, through death, and then to glorified Resurrection and victory. This year, as I enter the Holy Week process, I will remember in a special way the precious men and women I had spoken with this morning, along with all the other suffering people in the world whose lives contain more pain than joy at this time in our troubled history.


May the Lord of life be with you.

Sunday, November 15, 2015

The Agony of Paris

A terrible thing happened in Paris this weekend. Hatred, violence, the killing of innocence, unmerited pain, fanaticism, self-destruction, terror and chaos.

If you can, sit with the weight of all this evil  while gazing at a crucifix, and behold Him Who drew onto himself the entire weight of sin and evil in the world.

Hold the pain and connect it with the crucifix, and stay with it for as long as you are inspired to do.

In your prayers, let every suffering soul and every grieving person be embraced by the crucifix.

And remember this: the crucifix is the gateway to the end of all pain, all violence, all hatred, all chaos.

All death.

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A terrible thing happened in Paris this weekend.

A terrible thing is happening in the world these days, every hour, every moment.

Terrible things are happening in our country these days, every hour, every moment.

We cannot and do not hear of all of them. Few of them make the news or attract the attention of the media.

But still they are happening. And always, it is the crucifix that provides the only point of reference that makes it possible to bear the evil.

Even though it may seem impossible, or implausible, or unimaginable,
it is within the agony of the crucifix that is found  the seed of the end of it all,
and that seed will come to life.

And there will be peace. We will see glimpses of it. It will drown the darkness for all time.

And so pray,

     grieve,

          carry the pain.

                Allow the pain to gentle you and me that we may be no part of the darkness.

Pay careful attention to anything within you that may contribute to the darkness, even the temptation to think of righteous revenge. For when you think like that, you are infected by the same evil.

Pray. Grieve. Carry the pain. And give it over to the Savior the world needs so badly.


And let it end there. And let it begin there.