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Wednesday, September 13, 2017

A holy form of mind control

Wednesday, September 13, 2017

From today’s first reading: “Since you were raised with Christ, seek what is above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Think of what is above, not of what is on earth.” (Colossians 3:1-2)

Yesterday we contemplated the scene when Jesus spent the night alone with His Father in prayer. At the time, I observed what happened to me, and probably to you, by focusing my attention on that one detail of the Gospel:

“Whenever I set my mind on it, a sense of calm comes over me and at the same time arises from within me, and so this is a wonderful place to begin a time of prayer. Even as I type these words, that calmness is with me, and I hope you can sense it as well.”

Once we have begun to understand that we are not our thoughts, but rather the thinkers of our thoughts, we are able to separate from them a bit and observe them as then enter our minds. At that moment, we have a choice: either let them pass through, or entertain them and have them control us as they carry us off to whatever direction they demand. When the former happens, we are free and have a measure of control; when the latter happens, we are controlled by out thoughts, and often end up in an unpleasant mood.

You already know this. You know there are certain “tapes” your mind plays that lead you into rehashing bad memories, entertaining dark emotions, obsessing over what is in the past to the point where you lose all sense of what is in the present. Sometimes this is called “daydreaming.” Sometimes it is harmless although trivial; sometimes it is toxic: Notice what happens in your body and in your emotions when you allow certain "tapes” to play in your mind and ruin your otherwise pleasant experience.

If you understand this, and are willing to work with it, then the passage from Colossians that I quoted above can make sense in a new and powerful way. What it invites us to do is to choose to reflect on eternal matters rather than what is mundane, boring, hurtful or even sinful.

Moreover, you can collect certain words and phrases that prompt you to stay in holy space, things such as “Help me, Jesus,” or the Hail Mary, or turning over in your mind a particular scene from the Gospel or a turn of phrase like “seek what is above.” You can even use music to help redirect your focus. I have a particular song running through my mind today. It’s from a choral peace called “In Memory of You.” What I hear playing in my mind is simply this phrase: “Lord Jesus, you are here with us.” It keeps my mind focused on “things above” and quiets earthly thoughts.

Try it.


God bless you!

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