Spirituality for Beginners

Fr. Bede's almost-daily reflections. When it comes to the spiritual life, we're all beginners. I also send these out by email. Contact me at bcamera@anselm.edu. God bless!





Tuesday, September 20, 2016

How do we know we're doing the right thing?

Tuesday, September 20, 2016
A Proverb from today’s first reading:

All the ways of a man may be right in his own eyes,
but it is the Lord who proves hearts. (Prov. 21:2)

One of the effects of original sin is that we are born with a certain kind of blindness; that is, the inability to assess accurately the rightness or wrongness of our actions. It started at the very beginning with the sin of Eve. When she took the fruit from the tree and ate it, she was convinced that she was doing the right thing because Satan had distracted and confused her, and provided her with a right reason for doing what she did.

This happens to us as well, doesn’t it? Especially at times when we need to make good moral decisions. The sad truth is that we can almost always convince ourselves (or does the convincing come from the evil one?) that what we are doing is right.

Our higher nature always desires what is good and true and beautiful, and what will make us truly happy. The problem is that our “lower” nature deceives us and causes us to make wrong assessments of the goodness, truth and beauty of what we are being tricked into accepting.

I remember being in religion class many, many years ago, and having a teacher tell us that a bank robber is convinced that what he is doing is going to make him happy. Of course, in the long run, he finds out that he was wrong, because his action failed to take into consideration its consequences.

AA has a motto that says “think it through.” This is a helpful notion. “What will happen if I disobey the Lord’s command not to eat the fruit of this particular tree?” would have been the right question to ask, but the tempter had so confused her thinking that she became convinced that the consequences of her action would be good.

How about us? Where can we go, at times when we have to make a decision, to get a more accurate assessment of the reality of our actions and choices? To a trusted friend, to a therapist or spiritual director, to a counselor or to a member of the clergy . . . just a few of the resources we can use at times like these. Of course, the greatest resource of all is prayer. As for me personally, I find that as a result of meditation (where I am not asking any questions), I emerge better equipped to make a wise decision, yet still I will often “check it out” with one of my mentors if and when I can.

How about you?


God bless you this day!

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