Spirituality for Beginners

Fr. Bede's almost-daily reflections. When it comes to the spiritual life, we're all beginners. I also send these out by email. Contact me at bcamera@anselm.edu. God bless!





Thursday, January 14, 2016

Less worrying?

Those who have experienced or are experiencing a spiritual awakening tend to develop a loss of ability to worry. (The 7th item on the list we have been discussing this year. The complete list is at the end of this reflection.)

The work we are doing to grow spiritually, whatever it may be, bears fruit in our lives. These consequences develop gradually and naturally over the course of time and can’t be rushed, or hurried, or stressed. We simply do the work, and experience the consequences that result.

This is particularly true of today’s item: a loss of ability to worry. How does this happen? It takes growth in our ability to trust that God is active in our lives at all times, that His love for us is total and unending, and that he works to bring good out of anything difficult that might occur. Never forget that his ultimate will for us is that we be saved and enter the Kingdom of Heaven for all eternity. Also remember what Saint Paul so beautifully said, that “everything works together for the good of those who love God.”  (Romans 8:28)

It can be helpful to look back over the landscape of our lives and see (even if only for the first time) how God has guided, sustained, blessed, healed, protected, comforted, inspired, and helped us in the past, and continues to do so in the present and for the future.

My own personal journey of growth in trust began in a special way when I discovered the 2nd chapter of the Book of Sirach. Maybe it can help you as well:

Trust God and he will help you; make straight your ways and hope in him.
You who fear the Lord, wait for his mercy, turn not away lest you fall.
You who fear the Lord, trust him, and your reward will not be lost.
You who fear the Lord, hope for good things, for lasting joy and mercy.

Study the generations long past and understand;
has anyone hoped in the Lord and been disappointed?
Has anyone persevered in his fear and been forsaken?
Has anyone called upon him and been rebuffed?  (Sirach 2:6-10)

One last thing: sometimes it might seem to us that we have been disappointed, or forsaken, or rebuffed by the Lord. Even then, however, do not give up hope. Time will show you that He is working to answer your prayer, although not in a way that you would have liked Him to satisfy you at the moment. Once again, I encourage you to look back over your life and see if you can find times when this has turned out to be true.

Think on these things. Pray about them. Journal about them. Continue your program of meditation. You will find yourself worrying far less; you will experience times of calm when everyone else is running around fretting and fearing. You will know peace. God bless you!

12 Signs that one is undergoing a spiritual awakening:

1. An increased tendency to let things happen rather than to make things happen.
2. Frequent attacks of smiling.
3. Feelings of being connected with others and nature.
4. Frequent overwhelming episodes of appreciation.
5. A tendency to think and act spontaneously rather than from fears based on past experiences.
6. An unmistakable ability to enjoy each moment.
7. A loss of ability to worry.
8. A loss of interest in conflict.
9. A loss of interest in interpreting the actions of others.
10. A loss of interest in judging others.
11. A loss of interest in judging self.
12. Gaining the ability to love without expecting anything in return.


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